• It’s been a while since I last posted. Life, as it does, got busy. Since then, I’ve graduated from Ryerson University (now Toronto Metropolitan University), survived a global pandemic, started my own marketing business, and even moved across the world. Through all this change, I’ve learned a lot about myself and uncovered opportunities I never anticipated. Growing up, it seems, is all about discovering those layers — and I’ve been peeling them back one at a time.

    Let’s rewind a bit to 2018. That’s when I left my full-time management job to focus on completing my degree at Ryerson. One of my standout experiences there was working with a non-profit in Toronto. They needed a marketing plan, and I had the chance to build my first e-commerce website (one that wasn’t just a blog!). That project changed things for me — I found myself captivated by WordPress and the world of web design. The experience showed me how customizable and powerful WordPress could be, and I knew this was something I wanted to explore further.

    By 2019, I’d graduated and decided to take the leap and start my own marketing business. My focus was clear: website design and development, specifically on WordPress. It started small, but over time, I built up a loyal client base and eventually had enough regular clients to take the business full-time. WordPress made this growth possible — it gave me the flexibility to work with different businesses, each with unique needs, while still delivering solid, customized sites. WordPress has been more than just a platform; it’s been a toolkit for bringing my clients’ visions to life.

    Then came COVID. Like so many people, my partner and I found ourselves re-evaluating what we wanted out of life. After many conversations and months of planning, we decided to take the leap and move to Japan, a place with personal significance for both of us. In 2021, we packed our bags, our dog, and a lot of hopes, and settled into a new life in Hakone, a serene mountain town known for its hot springs and natural beauty. It was brave, I realize now, to start fresh, especially as a foreigner in a country where I still have a lot to learn.

    Life in Hakone has been both peaceful and challenging. While my partner is Japanese, my own language skills are still a work in progress, which makes daily life — and local connections — a bit harder to navigate. Professionally, working remotely has its own set of obstacles. All my clients are based in North America, which means I’m constantly adjusting to timezone differences. Late-night meetings and early mornings have become the norm. Luckily, WordPress is a remote-friendly platform. I can develop, optimize, and even manage client updates across continents with ease. This flexibility has been a lifeline, keeping my business running smoothly even with the challenges of time zones and language barriers.

    Amid the change, I’ve found ways to stay connected to things I love. I joined the Tokyo Canadians, a hockey team in Tokyo, and each week I make the trek into the city to play. Being on the ice with a group of fellow ex-pats and locals has grounded me and given me a small piece of home here in Japan.

    Looking back, this journey has been a series of discoveries, both personal and professional. WordPress has allowed me to build a career from anywhere, teaching me not only design and development but also patience, resilience, and the importance of versatility. Living in Japan has taken me out of my comfort zone, but it’s also shown me how adaptable I can be with the right tools in hand.

    Thanks for following along I’ll do my best to keep sharing the highlights and lessons from this journey. Here’s to more growth, more late-night meetings, and, hopefully, a bit more hockey.

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  • From Steve Jobs presenting the iPhone, to Jim Carey making a presentation to the graduating class of Muharishi University of Management. Great speakers use their character and knowledge in unison to make a rememorable presentation.

    I write this, not as a professional presenter, but as a student learning the ropes among giants. And these giants I speak of, well they don’t yet know they are giants. I’m taking a professional presentations course at the moment. The professor is a knowledgeable and likeable man trying to pull out excellence from his students. He had created a positive space in the classroom and most haven’t yet realized. Feedback is overwhelmingly positive, providing a boost to the ego and confidence of each student. Confidence that I had lost some time ago. “I feel nervous,” says one student just before he gets up to present a history of Jack Ma that was very informative and inspiring.

    This course has provided a few life lessons to me. I realized not long ago that one of the biggest inhibitors in most people’s lives is the negative voice in their head. The is certainly was/is the case for me. After starting to analyze the forces around me, I have noticed a few negative things. I found negativity in close friends, I’ve found negativity in society and most importantly, I’ve found negativity in myself.

    As this class continues, my outlook will be positive. My friends with the negative tones will be met with positivity. I finally found the the voice inside and I like the message it is delivering.

    Find your safe place and take a chance on positivity. It’s powerful.

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  • I’ve put off posting about this for a while. I’m now in my 30’s chasing an elusive business degree. After a 3 year Advanced Diploma program, I decided that I wanted to hold a degree. I’m now in my final year and have started to do some reflection on my experience.

    What they don’t tell you

    You will feel old – daily. When you are surrounded by 20-somethings everyday, you realize how much you have grown up. Your tolerance for shanigans is tested daily. Your pop references are no longer relevant and the hard parenting that you received from your Baby Boomer parents cannot be compared to the softer side of the Generation X parents. Millenials are less patient and have higher expectations. This is difficult to adapt to. But the technology and trends that they will expose you to are fantastic.

    Your experience will help you understand content. I still remember in High School, complaining that I am being forced to take courses that I won’t ever use. That misguided thinking resulted in me not being able to attend my first choice University. The math at university would be significantly easier if I applied myself back then and sought to understand what I was being taught. Trying to catch up to the class in a corporate finance class is very difficult. When you’re in the work force you develop habits, both good and bad. Your education will help you reinforce the good habits and try to rid you of the bad ones. You have the ability to use hindsight when being taught. Certain things an old manager/leader did, and you couldn’t understand why, start to make sense.

    Full-time job or full-time school. After completing my 3rd year at Ryerson (TRSM), I thought I would try to work full-time and take a couple classes each semester to save the bank and reduce my reliance on student loans. I found that the knowledge that I learned was applicable to the position and I wanted to apply some of the theory. As a result, the 40 hour a week job turned into a 60-70 hour a week job. I just couldn’t stop. So it came down to having to choose to either drop out of University and continue the career path I had jumped into, or going back to a full-time student and finishing the degree. I chose the latter.

    Student loans are a killer. The repayment of student loans as a mature student are hard to manage. Shortly after you graduate, the repayment plan kicks in. Depending on your loan size, you will have another 300-600 a month or more to pay. When you land a job in your career, and this may take a while, this monthly payment will be with you for a few years.

    University Career Centres are great! Using the career centre is a must, you are already paying money for this in your tuition, so use it. You will get the help you need to make sure your resume and cover letters are employer ready. Knowing how to write a resume to get through the resume screening algorithms is crucial for setting you apart from another candidate.

    In Conclusion

    Overall, as a mature student you bring experience to your learning. This was extremely helpful. Thinking about past positions and how the theory was applied. The financial hole you will dig yourself into on student loans are a heavy burden. Try to reduce the amount that you take. Payback what you don’t need right away. You’re surrounded by the youngest generation in the workforce. This gives you the opportunity to expose yourself to the new trends and technology. Take advantage of it. And lastly, network. The network opportunities are the second biggest advantage to getting an education. Help your network and in return, your network will help you. Everyone’s path is different, that’s what make the experience so great. There’s never a wrong choice if you decide to go back to school. Happy learning friends!

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  • I’ve put off posting about this for a while. I’m now in my 30’s chasing an elusive business degree. After a 3 year Advanced Diploma program, I decided that I wanted to hold a degree. I’m now in my final year and have started to do some reflection on my experience.

    What they don’t tell you

    You will feel old – daily. When you are surrounded by 20-somethings everyday, you realize how much you have grown up. Your tolerance for shanigans is tested daily. Your pop references are no longer relevant and the hard parenting that you received from your Baby Boomer parents cannot be compared to the softer side of the Generation X parents. Millenials are less patient and have higher expectations. This is difficult to adapt to. But the technology and trends that they will expose you to are fantastic.

    Your experience will help you understand content. I still remember in High School, complaining that I am being forced to take courses that I won’t ever use. That misguided thinking resulted in me not being able to attend my first choice University. The math at university would be significantly easier if I applied myself back then and sought to understand what I was being taught. Trying to catch up to the class in a corporate finance class is very difficult. When you’re in the work force you develop habits, both good and bad. Your education will help you reinforce the good habits and try to rid you of the bad ones. You have the ability to use hindsight when being taught. Certain things an old manager/leader did, and you couldn’t understand why, start to make sense.

    Full-time job or full-time school. After completing my 3rd year at Ryerson (TRSM), I thought I would try to work full-time and take a couple classes each semester to save the bank and reduce my reliance on student loans. I found that the knowledge that I learned was applicable to the position and I wanted to apply some of the theory. As a result, the 40 hour a week job turned into a 60-70 hour a week job. I just couldn’t stop. So it came down to having to choose to either drop out of University and continue the career path I had jumped into, or going back to a full-time student and finishing the degree. I chose the latter.

    Student loans are a killer. The repayment of student loans as a mature student are hard to manage. Shortly after you graduate, the repayment plan kicks in. Depending on your loan size, you will have another 300-600 a month or more to pay. When you land a job in your career, and this may take a while, this monthly payment will be with you for a few years.

    University Career Centres are great! Using the career centre is a must, you are already paying money for this in your tuition, so use it. You will get the help you need to make sure your resume and cover letters are employer ready. Knowing how to write a resume to get through the resume screening algorithms is crucial for setting you apart from another candidate.

    In Conclusion

    Overall, as a mature student you bring experience to your learning. This was extremely helpful. Thinking about past positions and how the theory was applied. The financial hole you will dig yourself into on student loans are a heavy burden. Try to reduce the amount that you take. Payback what you don’t need right away. You’re surrounded by the youngest generation in the workforce. This gives you the opportunity to expose yourself to the new trends and technology. Take advantage of it. And lastly, network. The network opportunities are the second biggest advantage to getting an education. Help your network and in return, your network will help you. Everyones path is different, thats what make the experience so great. Theres never a wrong choice if you decide to go back to school. Happy learning friends!

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    1929239_42795568090_8395_nA wise person once told me to pursue your hobbies in your spare time to balance your work life. The young professional that I was at the time thought “when would I even find the time to pursue a hobby?” Well almost a decade later, his words have remained with me and they are becoming more true the more I think about it.

    At the time I was living and working in Whistler, BC. I was a hop, skip and a jump from the base of the mountain gondolas. Even though a good year on the mountain was 70 days, each of those 70 days cleared my head, no matter what was troubling me at the time. Snowboarding was my hobby and I dearly miss it living in the busy flat city of Toronto.

    There is no thing that I have done that provides a deep sense of concentration from the conscious to the subconscious levels. The only thing that can be on your mind is the next turn you will make, or the obstacle coming up that you need to avoid. It’s a symbiotic relationship with nature.

    26806_381428458090_7464450_nNow there are two types of snowboarders in my mind, park rats and powder junkies. Although there was a time where I would have wanted to associate myself as being a park rat, I see less benefit now in throwing myself of a 50 foot kicker spinning like a ballerina looking for the tutu that fell off. No, I much prefer seeking a line in an untouched place on a mountain (preferably a bowl) and carving deep lines into a place no one has touched, or has overlooked. The closest feeling to surfing on snow that you can ever have.

    19971_307666008090_4196879_nSnowboarding on powder is a workout. It requires an intense amount of endurance and patience to find the perfect spot to drop in. Yes it often requires a hike to find that spot you are looking for, but the hike is often rewarded with a line of perfection.

    With a combination of risk versus reward, this hobby was very beneficial to me at the time. It provided me with a social circle and truly gave me balance in my personal time. One day I will be back to my happy place in Whistler. Until that day, my board will be waiting, waxed and ready for the call.

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    Thinking of going back to school? Well so was I. As a direct entry student at Ryerson University and a mature student at that, I wanted to reveal a few of the issues I had coming back to school after almost a decade away from the education industry.

     

    39471_417544243090_8077960_nUpon completion of high school, I decided to enter the work force, and eventually move to the west coast of Canada. I landed in Whistler, B.C., which is where I met my wife. I eventually worked my way up in the town to find a real estate management job. This was my first job in an office and I learned to hate answering my phone. Every time I picked up the phone, 90% of the time there was someone yelling at me. I found out pretty quickly that I liked the business world, but real estate management was not for me. So to develop my skill set and increase my knowledge, it was back to school and Toronto.

    Firstly, coming back to school, I noticed the age gap. Even though I was only 26 when I started at Centennial College, I was at a point in my life where I wanted to learn. It appeared to me that there were a select few in my class that chose college as a means to continue their social scene from high school. It was difficult for me to converse with some of these 18 and 19 year old students. Being on the cusp of Gen X and Gen Y, I was at a bit of a disadvantage in that the course readings in a marketing program today are heavily dependent on the strategic use of social media. I however was not.

    I completed the 3 year program at Centennial College to obtain an Advanced Diploma in Business Administration Marketing. After completion, I applied to Ryerson University’s Ted Rogers School of Management, studying in their Marketing Management program. I am a direct entry student, which means I transferred some of my credits from Centennial College and entered the 3rd year at Ryerson.

    I know the eventual completion of the program will be beneficial for me in terms of the jobs that I will be able to apply for, but the process of completing this program as a direct entry student is nothing but frustrating. Having completed my program at Centennial College, a lot of the material that we cover in the third year are reach back courses to make sure each student is ready for the upper year courses. Which translates to repetition of content.

    Over and over I hear segmentation, target market and the marketing mix, each time taught as if the students in the class have never heard the terms before. This is because the universities, and it’s not just Ryerson, will only allow certain number of transfer credits. Even if the course outlines show that the content is very close to being the same, a student may not exceed the maximum number of transfer credits. As a result, I sit in class and try not to fall asleep.

    The program mandates that you choose liberals from a list of course codes, 90% of which are not actually available, and as a result, I am a marketing student taking a biology course. Sure there were a couple other courses to choose from, but my level of interest in the content was even lower. Frustration ensues…

    The transition into University as a direct entry student has been difficult to say the least. Direct entry students often fall on the outskirts of the social scene and it is impossible to join unless you have the time to get involved. Joining a club, or finding ways to break the social bubble to get in. As of right now, I’m still on the outside looking in.

     

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  • The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is a personal change book written by Stephen R. Covey. The 7 habits Stephen R. Covey list in his book are: Be Proactive, Begin with the End in Mind, Put First Things First, Think Win/Win, Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood, Synergize, and Sharpen the Saw.

    The 3 habits that I feel are in alignment with my personality the most are:

    Habit 2 – Begin with the End in Mind: Keeping the goal in mind will keep you on task. For example, Stephen R. Covey describes a scenario where the reader is sitting in on their own funeral and there are four speakers, your immediate family, your friends, co-workers and members of your community. Covey continues to ask the reader, “what would you want them to say about you?” Keeping the end in mind allows you to keep your goals on path. I feel that this is habit aligns with my personality because when I plan for something, I am always thinking about the big picture. For example, Currently I am in the Business Administration program at Centennial College. My goal is to obtain a degree in law after completing a bachelors degree. As I am completing this program I am also taking law courses to help me in the future towards my long term goal. I am also using projects in my program to reach out an network with professionals in the field I am interested in.

    Habit 4 – Think Win/Win: Being a positive thinker is always useful. Covey illustrates that this habit is a balance between a personal and public win. Using my education as an example, if I work diligently on my studies and achieve a great mark from my professor(personal win), the school also wins because they have mentored a student with a high aptitude(public win).

    Habit 5 – Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood: In my opinion habit 5 is one of the most important, and most difficult, habits to learn. The habit title is self explanatory, however being able to listen is something that not everyone is good at. Being able to listen and fully understand a problem allows you to be able to find the right solution faster. Again using my education as an example, if I was given an assignment that was 3 pages long and only read the first page, I would be at a disadvantage because I do not have a full understanding of what is being asked of me. However if I was able to read the whole assignment I would be able to accurately answer the questions, giving me the best opportunity to receive a good mark.

    In addition to these 3 habits that I have listed, I will continue to Be Proactive and ensure my studies are completed fully and on time. I will also try to improve my time management skills by Putting First Things First. These two habits are very important in a school field and the workplace to be successful. 

    I currently work in a luxury hotel. By using these habits in the workplace I am able to anticipate guests needs before they ask for them (Be Proactive). By ensuring our guests feel rested and well looked after I am increasing customer retention which increases hotel revenues and increases the amount of shifts I receive, which increases my personal revenue (Think Win/Win). When a guest comes to me with a problem I will fully listen to them to understand completely what they are having a problem with. If I cannot personally resolve the solution I can find someone for them that can (Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood).

    The Fairmont hotel chain is a perfect example of the 7 Habits. They preach empowerment and anticipation of guest needs. The following video highlights what their mission statement is all about. http://youtu.be/ZchhLHWvNRU

    Works Cited

    Covey, S. R. (1989). The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People . 2004, 15th Anniversary Edition, NY: Free Press.

    FairmontCareers. (March 24, 2011). Our Brand Promise – “Turning Moments into Memories”. Youtube. http://youtu.be/ZchhLHWvNRU

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  • Social Media Tools are becoming more and more useful in todays ever increasing technical world. With almost every cell phone capable of using Skype, LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook, and Youtube, the business world is changing and its unknown how much more it can change.

    Let’s take a look at a few of these tools and how they are used.

    Skype: Skype can be described as the thorn in the airline companies backside. They have almost single handedly severely damaged the profits of these airline companies from business professionals. Instead of flying to a business destination, business people are able to, with a couple clicks, speak to their partners, investors and counterparts without having to leave their office, or living room for that matter. Skype can host interviews for prospective employees and can also help connect with family members around the world. This is one of the most powerful social media tools created to date in my opinion.Here is a quick 10 year history of Skype from Metro(UK) about how it has changed the world. http://metro.co.uk/2013/08/29/skype-ten-years-on-the-idea-that-shrank-the-world-3941266/

    LinkedIn: This powerful social medial tool is the definition of networking. LinkedIn allows its members to connect on a professional level and to see what type of professional the subject is. In terms of finding a potential employee for a business, LinkedIn allows the employer to see the education and employment experience in addition to endorsements from other members to help support your skill claims.

    Twitter: Twitter is similar to the ticker tape at the bottom of CNN. This website helps users follow what is trending in the world. However, twitter is often used for a way to vent about the problems in the world. The issue with some of the “tweets” is that people are accountable for what they say and this includes what you type on twitter. A good example is the NBA Referee that attempted to sue a reporter over alleged statements that were tweeted. The suit was eventually dropped, but this a prime example of how twitter can be misused. Here is some more information on the suit. http://www.nba.com/2011/news/12/07/nba-twitter-lawsuit-settlement.ap/index.html

    Facebook: Facebook is similar to twitter in that it is another website that can be misused. There are just some things that should never be put on the site. This includes slander towards your employer, or the customers. A West Palm Beach Duffy’s employee was fired this year after complaining about a tip left on a bill. As an employer you do not want your employees complaining about your customers, this would prevent retention of a repeat client. As News Channel 5 (wptv) reports, the employee was fired for complaining publicly about the customer. http://www.wptv.com/dpp/news/region_c_palm_beach_county/west_palm_beach/west-palm-beach-duffys-employee-fired-for-complaining-about-tip-on-facebook.

    Youtube: And so the “viral video” was born! This amazing website allowed the world to connect over video sharing. Everything from music videos to do it yourself videos are available on this website. I think the most powerful idea behind this site is being able to share knowledge on an imagery based level. An exact step by step guide to do it yourself. As a former handyman with a small business, I used Youtube frequently to find out how to fix something or to find out what I did wrong trying to fix something. However, this also allows fake videos to be passed off as real. A perfect example of this is a social media experiment that Jimmy Kimmel started in September 2013 about “the dangers of twerking” Here is the video about the experiment. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSJMoH7tnvw

    Social media will continue to be a driving force in how we do business and how we get information. I for one am excited to see what will come next!

    Works Cited:

    Nadia Gilani. (August 29, 2013). Skype: Ten years on, the idea that shank the world. Metro.co.uk. http://metro.co.uk/2013/08/29/skype-ten-years-on-the-idea-that-shrank-the-world-3941266/

    Author Unknown. (December 7, 2011). NBA, AP reach settlement in lawsuit over reporter’s tweet. NBA.com. http://www.nba.com/2011/news/12/07/nba-twitter-lawsuit-settlement.ap/index.html

    Tania Rogers. (June 11, 2013). West Palm Beach Duffy’s employee fired for complaining about tip on Facebook. News Channel 5 (WPTV) . Retrieved date. http://www.wptv.com/dpp/news/region_c_palm_beach_county/west_palm_beach/west-palm-beach-duffys-employee-fired-for-complaining-about-tip-on-facebook

    Jimmy Kimmel Live. (September 9, 2013). Jimmy Kimmel Reveals “Worst Twerk Fail EVER – Girl Catches Fire” prank. Youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSJMoH7tnvw

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